I have been going back and forth in my mind about trying this blog thing again. Iâve been coming closer and closer to clicking on my Blog Azeroth link and see if I can reclaim some mojo by trying my hand at some shared topics. That, however, is for another day…
The following is VERY rantyâŚyou have been warned.
Dear Reader, I would like to know…
Why so much negativity?
I react emotionally to many things in what is generally an âinstant gratificationâ fashion. Meaning that if something bothers me, it does so immediately and often dramatically.
I keep up with my beloved WoW community via Twitter. I find out about breaking news from 20 or 30 people all at once! I find it quite helpful! Also, members of my guild have coined our guild chat as actually being on Twitter instead of in-game! đ
So, where the frak am I going today? I am having difficulty with seeing negativity.
I believe a reason for my trouble with all the negativity, all of these âglass is half emptyâ points of view is that my real life has been so chock full of negativity for the past year that I am desperate to find the silver lining. A light at the end of the tunnel. Or just acknowledgment of something that is a business or marketing tactic, not something sinister or evil.
Jeez people!! Every move that Blizzard makes is NOT a direct attack against you and its NOT an attack on your race or class or faction, etc.
Every time there is some sort of nerf to a class, the die-hard players of that class invariably say: âBlizzard hates Paladins.â “Blizzard hates Shamans.” EVERY CLASS EVERY TIME.
People today are bitching about crafting come Mists of Pandaria. Seriously?! How many things do you loot off mobs that you canât sell and have no use for?
“ZOMG I canât make a mint on the AH by putting these up for sale?”
BIG FRAKING DEAL! DONâT FUCKING LOOT THEM THEN!
âbut..butâŚI autoloot..And Blizzard is going to make me take extra steps to get rid of items I canât use.â
Alt F4 then. Kthxbai. Or, if you are a crafter, donât lump those of us who enjoy using the crafting skills into your microcosm of Blizz hatred. You want to craft by buying the mats? Well, you are out of luck I suppose. I give you the Vulcan adage: âThe good of the many outweighs the good of the few.â I, like many WoW players, do not have upteenbazilliontoinfinity amounts of gold to buy all the things that are needed. If you donât like it, then donât use it. There are many elements of WoW that I am not into, and you know what? I just donât do them.
I am not someone who has been plugged into the MMO world for the past 20 years. I donât feel I know ALL THE REASONS that a game producer does what they do, but I do not understand the focus on the negative. There must be a reason for the BoP nature of Spirit of Harmony. There must be a reason for class nerfs. I am not being a Blizzard apologist Iâm just inclined to believe that there is another side to the story. I also understand that feedback is important and that developers often listen. I understand that sometimes bitching leads to change. HEY GUESS WHAT?? So does support and compliments. There is just a tad (read: galactic-scale of little) of the latter out there.
Again, why so much negativity?
I understand peopleâs initial reactions to change are to: bitch, whine, cry, tear your mantle, whatever you need to do. We are emotional creaturesâŚbut thenâŚwe need to work toward getting past it. Your class nerfs or your BoP mats are not things to cause un-repairable heartbreak or even a diagnosable disorder from the DSM-IV (both of which I have, tyvm). FIND THE GOOD. FIND THE LIGHT. FIND THE HOPE. I, for one, REFUSE ANY LONGER, to be a CHRONIC CYNIC of my favorite pastime, or entertain the Chronic Cynic. I put people on mute in Vent because I refuse to be an audience, week after week after week, for their complaints that never seem to end.
Yes, my good people, everyone is entitled to their opinion. (Oftentimes, I seem to be the one who is not..hmmmm) I just know from education and experience that a more positive viewpoint is generally a healthier one. I understand that being whatever% lower than The Other Guy on some arbitrary meter somewhere pisses people off. I get it. I believe you should react in the way you feel is best. Again, throw things, punch puppies, dump ashes on your head..whatever you got to do to be okay. Once the calm has returned, consider thinking: âWell, that sucksâŚBUT, my class can now do THIS! (Insert Something Really Cool And Awesome That No Other Class Can Do.) OrâŚâWell I canât use these mats, so Iâll destroy them, no big deal?” I fail to see how this point of view could be anything but helpful.
As a quick aside, I would love to see someone do a blog post about the resiliency of a group of players of a class, that despite being the âshittiest Tank/Healer/DPS, still LOVE playing their class/role.â Where are those folks? Perhaps I should do one.
The glass can be half-full people. There is a new expansion on the way. There is new stuff to do again. Sure, change is tough. And while my tanking may suck and Iâm certain healing is going to make me want to shoot myself in the head,  Iâll get past it because there is fun to be hadâŚ